What Happens After a Major Goal is Achieved?

Many success articles focus on helping people “get there” – you know, achieve the goal. I, too, have written many articles on how to attain goals. Most of my clients come to me because they have a goal they want to achieve and they want help making it happen. But what happens after a major goal is achieved? The logical answer is to celebrate the achievement and then focus on the next goal. And that is also good advice.

However, there is that in-between time.  After giving an almost herculean effort to achieve an important goal, there is a sense of victory, but also a sense of loss. There is even a sense of emptiness, sometimes.  I have experienced this and I see it with my clients, too. When you finish the thing that has occupied so much space in your head and your heart, there is a void.  I sometimes find myself grieving a bit, too when I finish something important.

I use to worry about this. I would think- “What is the matter with me?” I even felt guilt. I thought I should be supremely happy and when I would go through sadness after achievement, I frankly, could not understand myself.

What I have learned is that this is part of the cycle. I see it in myself and my clients. Recognizing that sadness is also a part of the goal achievement cycle helps give a person perspective.  I go through it every time I finish a project, finish a book, or any other important goal. I give myself space and time. I don’t try to talk myself out of it. I honor my feelings and allow my emotions to unfold. I am gentle with myself. I practice excellent self-care. I take baths, listen to soothing music, read books for entertainment, and doodle in my journal.

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When you are ready, you can move on to what’s next.

Warmest,

Sheri

13 thoughts on “What Happens After a Major Goal is Achieved?

  1. pixiewillow46

    great post, love this, most people dont immediately think about what happens next after achieving, I guess for me once I achieve my goal I generally have something new to achieve and I like being that way. I make sure though I get my balance. Really enjoyed reading this hun x

      1. pixiewillow46

        balance for me is super important because I have a family and run a couple of businesses so, I’m a planner by nature haha

  2. Great post Sheri confirming many of my feelings.. ! Thank you for your perspective. Perfect timing after my big projects. In my heart I know both of my completed projects will lead to new doors opening. In the mean time I will take it easy on myself —
    Warmest
    Bonnie

  3. Love this! I never stop to think about what’s next…because I always have something else in mind to accomplish. I am one of those people who is go, go, go all the time…but that is not always good! And I know it! At some point there needs to be some downtime so you can celebrate your successes, and really focus on the bigger picture and what’s next…a good reminder!

    1. I love your energy. Go, go, go… is a great energy for achievement. I imagine that you accomplish a lot every day. And I like that you recognize that it is okay to take a breath, too.

  4. Sheri (why does it feel like I’m talking to myself here?), this was a great post for me to read as I edge ever closer to the goals I’ve set for myself, the intentions I am manifesting and the goals I look forward to setting as I achieve the ones that are already out there. I never considered a let down period, but will surely watch for it now, and, as you suggested, be kind to myself and let the feelings run their course.

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